Deanna ([personal profile] dr4b) wrote2003-01-12 04:33 pm

sunday randoms

- Something's missing from my life. I don't know what, but it keeps gnawing at me.

- Trusting other people is hard. Infact, if one wonders about another person, one should just ask that other person. Asking third parties is just asking for trouble.

- Making *real* friends is such a royal pain in the ass. How on earth did I manage to get to know so many cool people in college? Oh yeah. That's right, they all lived nearby and I could spend a lot more time with them.

[identity profile] luminifer.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
and of course, where would you meet them in "real life"? :)

[identity profile] megami.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, I feel the exact same way sometimes. I have a whole slew of friends, but no one really stands out as one who I can really trust. ::hugs:: Hang in there; I love you...!! :D

[identity profile] damion.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
- Something's missing from my life. I don't know what, but it keeps gnawing at me.

You need more adventures!

[identity profile] kawaru.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I know what you mean. I have some friends, that, when I think about it, they aren't really my friends at all. Like the words "love" and "promise", people tend to throw the word "friend" around far too lightly these days. But if just one person is really your friend, they're worth more than all the "fake" ones. At least, that's what I've always said.

[identity profile] ka3ytl.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You are missing that all important service component.

Check out http://www.serviceusa.org/regionxi/

[identity profile] nickjong.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I know what you're missing. It's bridge. Come to Austin and play bridge with me.

I don't know about you, but I miss the Lounge. It's like Cheers for geeks.

Sometimes you want to go, where everybody knows your name,
and they're always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see, our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows your name.

[identity profile] arsenic44.livejournal.com 2003-01-12 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe it's easier to have friends you can trust as a guy. Then again, its hard to get remotely close to me, so I guess I just got lucky. I've got 4 or 5 friends I grew up with that are still around, and I'm glad.

[identity profile] aquatwo.livejournal.com 2003-01-13 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
half a million things missing from mine... but most of them cascade from my lack o control over self, lack of structure, managability... so much unnecessary structure in my life and yet so much missing, so little constraint where it matters and so much holding me back from truly living...

not sure if i qualify as a real friend or not... likely just an acquaintance... but i consider you one of the few friends i have here in Seattle. i've lived here 2-1/2 years now and still hardly know anyone. i'm just not social. :-/ i wish i was...

i love Wednesdays though and i am very grateful for all the courtesy you've shown me in them. i know i am terrible at DDR compared to all you guys but i have fun anyway and for a while i feel like part fo a group sometimes, kind of... i know i will never be part of the group until i'm "good enough" and could do without some of the elitist vibe... but s'all good. :-) hanging out with you, Robbie, and the people who's names i always forget, lol... i love acting like an ass at Krispy Kreme afterwards... it makes my week sometimes.